[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ custom_padding=”0|0px|30.7656px|0px”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.0.47″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” custom_padding=”18px|0px|15.375px|0px”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ parallax=”off” parallax_method=”on”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.0.106″ text_font_size=”18px” text_text_color=”#425d7c”]It is easy to understand the feelings of sadness, loss and dejection in the person who has lost a loved one. The mourners cry, express discomfort and get stressed very easily, and this is normal. People around the mourner get worried about his wellbeing, his health, and wish he goes through the mourning very soon. However, in many occasions this feeling of sorrow make relatives and friends make the mistake of asking him not to cry anymore, to calm down and almost to go through the mourning right away. These words may have a dramatically negative effect in the mourner and provoke a deep change of humor. The mourning period varies from one person to another; there is not a rulebook to complete this period after the death of a loved one. Mourning is inevitable; at this moment friends and the rest of the family are fundamental.<\/p>\n
Showing respect for the mourners means to accompany them and share their pain. In some occasions it is helpful to stay in silence just holding the hand of the person who feels very sad. We can also show respect for the mourner by offering ourselves to make what is needed at home, taking the children to school, going to the supermarket to buy the food. This help could bring the mourner some time to meditate, to stay quiet and get ready to go back to normal life. Another way to show respect to the person who faces the mourning is by listening to him talk about the event, about the deceased and his memories and how much he misses him. When the mourner speaks freely without interruptions, he can get comfort and free himself form what death represents.<\/p>\n
The company of relatives and friends, the activities they can offer to the person who faces death as an alternative to drain anguish are also ways to show respect during the mourning without thinking on a fixed period of time to go back to normal life. The thing is to listen carefully, to bring support with lovely phrases, to accompany the mourner and check he eats and rests appropriately; to offer your help, to be patient, and share his pain.
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It is easy to understand the feelings of sadness, loss and dejection in the person who has lost a loved one. The mourners cry, express discomfort and get stressed very easily, and this is normal. People around the mourner get worried about his wellbeing, his health, and wish he goes through the mourning very soon. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":4334,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"
Es comprensible que quien pierde a un ser amado se sienta triste, perdido, abatido. El doliente llora, expresa molestia, se estresa con facilidad. Todo esto es normal. Las personas a su alrededor se preocupan por su bienestar, su salud y esperan que salga del duelo pronto. Sin embargo, en ocasiones esa misma preocupaci\u00f3n lleva a los familiares y amigos a cometer el error de pedirle a quien enfrenta el duelo que no llore m\u00e1s, que se calme, que salga de ese estado. Estas palabras pueden resultar tremendamente contraproducentes y provocar en el afectado un cambio dr\u00e1stico de humor. El per\u00edodo de duelo var\u00eda de una persona a otra, por lo que no existe un manual a seguir para completar esa etapa tras la muerte de un ser querido. El duelo es inevitable, y en ese per\u00edodo es fundamental la presencia de los amigos y dem\u00e1s miembros de la familia.<\/p>
Respetar el duelo de quien enfrenta una muerte significa acompa\u00f1arlo en su pena, algunas veces qued\u00e1ndose simplemente en silencio, tomando la mano de esa persona que se encuentra muy triste. Tambi\u00e9n se muestra respeto al doliente ofreci\u00e9ndole ocuparse de las actividades del hogar, llevar a los ni\u00f1os a la escuela, hacer las compras. Esto le brindar\u00e1 al doliente un tiempo para meditar, serenarse, prepararse para retomar las actividades de su vida diaria. Otra forma de mostrar respeto a quien est\u00e1 pasando por un duelo es escuch\u00e1ndolo hablar del evento que acaba de ocurrir, de la persona que ha fallecido, de sus recuerdos y cu\u00e1nto la extra\u00f1a. Al hablar libremente, sin ser interrumpido, el doliente se desahoga y se libera de la carga que representa la muerte.<\/p>
La presencia de familiares y amigos, las actividades que puedan ofrecer a quien enfrenta una muerte como forma para drenar la angustia, son maneras de mostrar respeto durante el duelo sin pretender que exista un tiempo determinado para retomar la vida. De lo que se trata es de escuchar, animar con palabras cargadas de amor, acompa\u00f1ar y asegurarse de que el doliente se alimente bien y descanse; ofrecer ayuda, ser paciente, compartir el dolor sin huir.<\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4611","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4611\/"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post\/"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5\/"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments\/?post=4611"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4611\/revisions\/"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6055,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4611\/revisions\/6055\/"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4334\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/?parent=4611"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories\/?post=4611"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/previsionmontevecchio.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags\/?post=4611"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}